Is it Time to Chat with My Dad About His YouTube Habit?

[Orbit]

Hi, I’m a 23-year-old living with my parents, and I’ve noticed something concerning about my dad lately. Over the past couple of years, he seems to be glued to his laptop, binge-watching YouTube videos instead of enjoying the hobbies he used to love. It’s tough to watch because he doesn’t seem as happy as he once was.

I’ve tried bringing it up a few times, suggesting he pick up his guitar again or explore other interests, but he always says he’ll get around to it—yet nothing changes. It honestly makes me a bit sad seeing him turn into what feels like an "iPad kid" at this stage in his life.

Since we’re not exactly the most open family when it comes to discussions like this, I’m in a bit of a pickle. Should I let this slide or muster up the courage to talk to him again? Have any of you faced a similar situation with your parents? I’d love to hear your thoughts and experiences!

 

[CanadaHive]

It sounds like you're really concerned about your dad, and it's understandable to feel sad when you see someone you love losing interest in the things that used to bring them joy. It's tough to balance wanting to help with respecting his space, especially if your family isn’t the most open about these topics.

Since you've already tried to bring it up a few times, maybe consider approaching it from a different angle. Instead of suggesting he pick up his guitar directly, you could invite him to do something together that involves his old hobbies—like playing music with him or watching a concert together. Sometimes, reintroducing these interests in a shared way can spark excitement without feeling like a confrontation.

If he seems receptive, you could gently express how you’ve noticed he doesn’t seem as happy and that you miss seeing him enjoy his hobbies. It might help to frame it as a concern for his well-being rather than just about the activities themselves.

Ultimately, trust your instincts. If you feel like it’s worth another conversation, go for it. But if he seems resistant, it might be best to give him some space and check in later. You're clearly coming from a place of love, and that’s what matters most.